In the Garden

I am so pleased at how well our garden is growing!

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Here is what we are growing this year.

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tomato garden

Roma Tomatoes

Tomatoes (regular round style)

Cherry Tomatoes

Garden Berries (small round tomatoe like fruit)

Tomatillos

Box #2

squash family garden

Zuchinni

Crook Neck Yellow Squash

Cantalope

Watermelon

Pumpkin

Acorn Squash

Butternut Squash

Box #3

cucumber

Peas

Cucumber

Lemon Cucumber

Box #4

pepper garden

Jalapenos

Seranos

Bell Pepper

Big Jim

Banana Pepper

Habanero

Here are some shots of the plants in progress.

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We have been getting zuchinni and squash thus far, I am excited to start getting some big crops!  I hope your gardens are growing well!

 

Some of my favorite workout moves

I have been having so much fun with my new gym and workout.  Most days I feel like I might pass out or throw up from the intensity, but honestly I wouldn’t have it any other way.  I feel my body working on such a level that I have never pushed it before and it is responding which makes me feel great.  Today for my “things” post I am going to share some of the fave workout moves that I have been enjoying over the last couple of months.

{I am by no means a fitness expert or offering fitness advice to anyone, I just really like these workouts in particular}

Tire Jumps- I love doing these, they make me feel strong and really get me sweating right away.

Kettlebell Swings- Love love love these, again they get your blood pumping right away and work your whole body!

Heavy Bag workout- My trainer incorporates a lot of heavy bag work into our workouts of the day.  I like it because I also think it reinforces my karate work.

Dead Lifts- Great butt move.  We do them just like this but with weight.

Squats- Another great one for your butt and thighs… these make me happy.  I have been squatting about 110 lbs and that is probably where I will stay.

Battle Ropes- These are great for cardio.  They work your whole body!

Pliet Squats- Nothing will get to your bottom like these. Our trainer adds these in regularly and we all have a love/hate relationship with them.

Butt Ups- I usually do these with a thirty five pound weight resting on my thighs to make them a bit harder. They do the trick for sure on the bottom.

Sled Pull- Another one we have a love/hate relationship with.  We do several types of sled pulls at the gym and I really feel them the next day.

Many of these excercises are a bit unconventional but I think that is why I like them so much, it is really a challenge. I of course, am using a trainer who always makes sure that safety is number one! If you are thinking of doing any of these please do not do them without a fitness professional to help you! If you are in western colorado and are looking for a great gym check out Colorado Mountain Fitness, it is wonderful!!!

Homeschool Tips: Organization

Homeschool Tips and advice

One thing that EVERY homeschool mom has to have is an orgaziational system.  you cannot function as a homeschool if you don’t know where everything is.  You don’t have to have an entire room set up for your homeschool, but at least you must have a place where everything is kept.

Each of my boys had a basket in the dining room where their binders and work was kept when the school day was done.  That way if there was something they needed they knew where to find it.  If they were working on an ongoing project that they needed certain materials they would keep them there as well until the project was complete.  It wasn’t an elaborate orgaization process, but it worked.  There is no need when you first start out to create an entire section of your home for homeschooling, just make sure there is a spot for everything and eventually you will evolve as you need to.

Tracking lessons and time.  I kept a homeschool planner seperate from my own personal planner.  I wrote down each day what lessons we did, how many minutes (or hours) we spend on said lesson and then added up our time for the week to make sure we were staying on track.  I kept track of the things we needed to review or work further on also so that we could come back and make sure that all concepts were fully understood.  I downloaded an inexpensive homeschool planner off of Etsy, but you would go buy a planner at any store and do the same thing with it.  I liked having mine downloaded and in a three ring binder, it gave me plenty of room to write notes and details and again it was very inexpensive.

Below are some templates you are free to use.

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homeschool reading list

planner schedule

homeschool daily hours worksheet

Keep in mind vacations and holidays.  They will sneak up on you, so keep them in mind when you begin a new month and also a new lesson block.  It is a bummer if Christmas break falls right on the week that you just began a new block on fractions.  I knew Ezra wasn’t going to remember anything about this new concept after the break so I did a week of review on previous lessons.  I really like to throw review in before a vacation or a break.  It really helps solidify the concepts and keeps you from having to repeat new concept lessons that didn’t stick.

Budget- keep a running tally of everything you buy.  This not only helps you plan for the next year but also helps keep you on track.  I recommend starting each year with a handwritten budget for everything.  $600 for curriculum, $540 for karate classes, $500 for Coop classes taken with teachers, $100 for extra books and literature, etc etc.  This way I know exactly what I need to buy, when and how much it is going to cost.  Again, we are lucky enough to be able to submit these items to a program that will help pay for them.

The main point is you have to have some organization to make it.  If your materials and books are strewn all over the place you will spend way too much time hunting for what you need and your school day will feel like a stressful jumbled mess.

Let me know if you have any other questions about organization.  I am all about no fuss no muss keep it simple kind of organization and I looove helping people find simple solutions that make sense for their homes.

 

Homeschool Tips: Implementation

Homeschool Tips and advice

Yesterday we spoke about some of the challenges with homeschool and whether or not it would fit for your family.  So, lets pretend today that you decided yes, this would be a viable option.

How do you move forward?

There were so many questions I had before I started.  It all seemed sooo BIG.  Really though, it isn’t.

What I do first  is put together my tentative schedule or rhythm for those of you who are familiar with the Waldorf terms.

It can be as detailed as you wish but the things you want to consider are how many hours a week you want to work on any given subject.  Language Arts is a large one so we always have more time spent on that whether it be reading, writing, typing, spelling, or handwriting practice.  We tend to spend at least 7 hours a week on Language Arts.  We break it town into sections.  Click below to see a tentative schedule for Ezra.

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I map out what our days will look like and then I add up the hours to make sure we are getting the allotted time.

Another thing to keep in mind is what your state requires for hours of instruction.  In Colorado, we are required to meet 720 instructional hours for the entire year.  This works out for us to be about 25 hours per week of instruction time.  Make sure you meet your allotted hours a week.

The next step is to figure out your curriculum.  That could take up an entire other post in itself.   Let me say this.  No curriculum is perfect.  I have researched thousands and each one seems to have something I would change.  There is no reason invent the wheel here.  Once you begin homeschooling you will be plenty busy following through with the curriculum so I do recoommend creating your own, especially if you are just beginning.  Save your energy for helping your child transition into this new way of learning.  Just pick one and go with it, then you can tweak it to fit your needs.  Ezra needed more advanced spelling words so I added those from a list I found online to the curriculum we purchased.

Fill out the required state “intent to homeschool form at your district office”.  This was as simple as calling your local school district  (they won’t bite I swear) and asking them to email the document to me, signing it and emailing it back.  Once the form is recieved you may begin homeschooling 15 days after.  So make sure you get it in 15 days before the first day you intend on homeschooling.  Easy peasy.

GO!  Now you simply have to set up your space and do your schooling!  Again, especially if you are just starting out, keep it simple.  We did much of our schooling at our dining room table.  Why not?  Some times we do it sitting on the couch together, or at the kitchen counter while I cook.  You don’t have to get fancy with a “homeschool room”.  We did our entire first year of schooling with out a designated space.

I hope this answered some of your questions about how to actually begin homeschooling.  Check in tomorrow to talk about curriculum.

Homeschooling Tips: Getting Started

Homeschool Tips and advice

When I decided to homeschool it sort of hit me upside the head.  I had never even considered it.  I saw Ezra struggling in some areas.  I saw that he wasn’t allowed to move forward in some areas.  I saw his frustration.  I saw his confidence begin to shift.  I had to do something.  When he broke his collar bone, it felt like a sign.  He could not attend school for a number of weeks and we had already been considering homeschooling (thanks to a very encouraging sweet friend who felt passionately about it).

There were things I just didn’t know.  I had no idea what homeschooling actually meant.  I had a quick crash course (again, from an aquaintence who works with a homeschooling charter school) on the ins and outs of homeschooling.

Here are somethings to consider if you are considering:

Time: Do you as a mother have the time to put in the hours and make sure your child is learning.  I am so very thankful that in this situation I was able to shift some things around and devote the time it takes to homeschool.  How much time does it take?  Each day Ezra spends about 4 hours on core subjects {math, science, language arts, social studies}, and about 30 minutes to an hour free reading.  On top of that we have to fulfil some electives {art, drama, pe, music, cooking,language}.  We decided that we would call our karate PE and we also take regular swimming lessons.  We added in art and cooking for a few hours a week.  Altogether we spend about 25 hours per week on actual studies.  Granted, Ezra is able to complete much of it on his own without me being right there with him, but I have to be there to help him if he needs it.  He is not old enough to stay home alone and I don’t feel like that is a responsibility he is ready for.  I also spend about 4-5 hours a week lesson planning and gathering supplies.  (I am hoping that next year will be less however, by using another curriculum).  The very first question to ask yourself after reading this paragraph is do I have 25-30 hours a week to devote exclusively to homeschooling?

Money:  There is homeschool money available out there all you have to do is access it.  Unfortunate for us this year, we missed the cut off date {generally Oct 1st for most states} to access any homeschooling funds.  Most states have a program to help you access those funds.  Our local one is called Vision Charter School and they have three campuses!  I had no idea this even existed until I started looking into homeschooling.  They will get state funding for me to purchase curriculum and pay for any classes I chose to sign my kids up for.  I am looking forward to being able to utiilize this next fall.  To find out if there is one in your area you can probably chat with a homeschooler you know {most local homeschoolers probably use the programs} or even google it as it would be part of your school district.  There are also public funded “blended” schools where kids can remote in online via webcam to certain classes.  I have some friends here on the Western Slope who utilized a blended school in Colorado Springs on the other side of the state.

Teaching: Do you feel like you can/want to teach your child?  I was a bit torn about it.  Ezra was so excited to begin homeschooling that I felt it was worth a shot.  If he “bought in” then he would be motivated to try harder.  It is a challenge somedays even still.  Looking back, I think we did pretty well together.  There were some hiccups, and some burnout toward the end of the year.  Overall, we rocked it.  I found I was able to relearn with him some of the math skills that honestly we just don’t use anymore.  (who multiplies fractions everyday?)  You don’t have to be a teacher, that is why you buy a curriculum.  Follow it and BAM they start learning!  If teaching your child sounds like a version of hell there are other options as well.   There are also public funded “blended” schools where kids can remote in online via webcam to certain classes.  I have some friends here on the Western Slope who utilized a blended school in Colorado Springs on the other side of the state.  They sent my friend a computer with a webcam for her child along with all of his books, supplies and a science kit.  He remoted in a few times a week and did much of his work independently to submit to his teacher online.

Socialization:  Everyone is concerned about socialization when homeschooling is mentioned.  I have found this to be a non issue.  This is different for every family.  We are involved in so many activities that Ezra was consistently given the opportunity to socialize with kids his age.  We also have friends who have kids his age that we could get him together with.  We often have family events and dinners which also is a great way for kids to socialize.  Who says socialization is only with kids their same age?  Part of socialization is learning to interact with adults as well.  I want my kids to be able and willing to carry on a conversation with an adult they come in contact with as well.  Late in the year, we tapped into some homeschooling groups and found a few families that have kids his same age.  This was a great blessing also!  To find out if there is a homeschooling group in your area, you can look up homeschool coop or home educators coop and it may put you in contact with other familes.  Our town is pretty small so I was able to find out who is homeschooling via word of mouth and go directly to them.  One thing to note:  I am not really shy or nervous about reaching out to people.  I was able to get out there and make some connections for the boys.  If this is a challenge for you, or if you don’t know any families that have kids around the same age as your kids already, this could be a challenge.  Simply signing them up for outside activities could help with that.  I know we run into all the same families over and over at our events {swimming, karate, etc}.

These topics will give you some food for thought when you are deciding whether or not homeschooling is something your family can do.  I suggest sitting down with your spouse and going through them and really discuss each topic.

Garlic Harvesting

The garlic that we planted last fall around Halloween was ready to harvest over the 4th of July weekend.

It looked good and ready.  The old wives tale is that when the ends start to turn yellow and crispy it is time to dig them up.  It generally falls around 4th of July according to my father.

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I took them and braided them into clusters.

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garlic braiding

Aren’t the lovely?

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How to grow garlic

hanging garlic

To dry them out you have to hang them so we dedicated a portion of the pegboard in our garage to them.

 garlic hanging to dry

Have you tried growing garlic?  It is seriously the easiest thing I have grown thus far.   Check out my fall post for directions on how to plant it!

 

Ezra’s Birthday

This year, due to the fact that the trip to Boston was a big part of his birthday we had a very simple birthday for Ezra.  We invited family over for a bbq, the cousins ran through sprinklers and we ate cake.

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He requested an ice cream cake and this tutorial was very helpful in creating an amazing ice cream cake.  ( I added in a couple of crushed oreo layers between mint and chocolate ice cream flavors and everyone raved about it).

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He asked if he could have a friend spend the night after the family left.  Once his friend arrived we headed out to the firepit for smores.

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smores

We set up the teepee that the boys had gotten for Christmas and they watched the lego movie inside of it after the sun went down.  They decided to stay the night in the house because the teepee didn’t seem to keep bugs out very well.

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It was a great birthday!

To finish off this post, I am going to share some things about Ezra at age 10 that I find endearing.

Ezra is very interested in what he is interested in. He will emerse himself in learning about a particular subject (like goats) and is willing to dedicate his energy to the subject.

He goes with the flow.  He definately has his own opinions but he is not stubborn and will bend to make things work for everyone.

He is happy go lucky.  He has moments where he is sad or even mad, but they pass very quickly and he generally wants to be a happy person and exudes cheer much of the time.

He is active.  He is not one to sit around staring at the TV or playing video games.  Even when he does get the opportunity he bores with it pretty quickly.

He is a helper.  He enjoys helping with projects, especially outside and likes to be a part of the things we are doing around the yard and house.  If something is going on, he definately wants to be a part of it, he does not want to sit on the sidelines.

He is quite possibly the sweetest person I have ever been around…ever!

He is loyal.  He loves people and is loyal to those who are important to him.  He values his friends and family and never has a bad thing to say about any of them!

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Here is to being a decade old!

Following up on past posts: Your Q & A

I have gotten a couple of emails about some of the past posts.  I get so excited about getting emails from you guys, I absolutely will be happy to follow up with some of your questions!

Q&A

 

How is the DIY Rustic Mirror holding up? Strangely this is one of my most read posts. Hundreds of people flock to my blog to read about my $10 mirror makeover.  More than a few of you have said that you wanted to make your own diy mirror.  Well, that mirror was never made to last unfortunately.  Although it was very pretty, it was a bit flimsy and it totally shattered in our move to the new house.  These sorts of things happen in moves.  Bummer!  At least it was not expensive.  Maybe I will make another one to hang in my new master bedroom!

Whats up with your positivity project?  Still Feeling positive?  This got tossed to the back burner when our house was put in the market last winter.  I was such a busy stressed mess that it seemed wrong to write about being positive, when I was running around like a crazed mess.  Since, life is great and I plan on picking up that series to touch on stress management and share a few things I learned (with quite a bit of failure in the mix) though some of the trying times of this last year.  Paul’s ankle surgery certainly added a big ol dose of worry and stress on my shoulders in October, along with Ezra breaking his collar bone.  So, while I would like to say I kept it cool the entire time, well that just is not true and I am nothing if not honest with you all.  Life is great though and I would love to share some things I learned through those tough times.  More to come there, keep watch!

Disney tips? Any  Some of you have noticed that we seem to love Disney!  Yep we have gone almost every year since Lucas was born.  I do have some fun tips to share and they were published on San Juan Parent, a local online magazine.  Go HERE if you are interested in reading them.

Have you made any updates to your new home. It looked like it needed some work?  Man, we have done some things, and I have not even had a chance to take pictures of them and post.  This last year really took us for a ride and I have done some projects in the middle of it all, but it takes a lot to get pictures and post.  I am promising myself I will be better about that.  I showed you all some of the painting we have done, and the little updates to Lucas’ room, I even showed the wallpaper coming down in Lucas’ room.  We have done more and I promise I will try harder to post about some of the things we are doing to our home.  We have a lot of fun stuff growing in the garden that I need to post about.  I can hardly wait!!!

Any chance you all will be having any more children?  You really seem to love being a parent?  We will not be having any more children.  We love having our two boys, and I wouldn’t change it in a second.  The four of us, we fit, and I couldn’t imagine having any other members running around here.  We have talked about adopting as it is something I have always wanted to do, there are so many children in the world that don’t have their needs met, or families to love them.  That may not be in the cards, but we love our family just the way it is.

Are chickens hard to care for in the winter?  Not at all, other than it is no fun to go out when it is cold and make sure they have fresh water.  They are pretty hardy and I will be posting a follow up on chicken care.  They are hanging in there!  Summer heat actually seems to be more of a challenge especially in our dry Colorado climate.

No more parties? Are you still a party planner? Hmmm, where to begin with that?  That just got very hard to keep up.  I kept having to turn parties down because I did not have the time to take them on.  I was getting calls on a regular basis and I found myself dreading it because I was already so very busy with life. Between shuttling the kids here and there, helping my husband at the shop and trying to keep the house, there just isn’t a ton of free time.  I decided it was not the time to add more to my plate.  I still throw them for my own children, for fun and I love to help others with their soirees.  :)

You mentioned once or twice that you co parent?  Any chance that you would be willing to share info about that, how that works for you?  Hmmmm, I have gotten this email more often than I imagined I would ever since I mentioned it in my Project Be More Positive series.  I have gone back and forth about whether or not I should breech the topic further.  It is quite personal and I really want to respect all parties involved including my son.  I am still on the fence about that.  I will say, we make it work!  Ezra is well adjusted and seems to have a great relationship with both me and his father along with my husband.  We all have respect for one another and try very hard to all do our best for Ezra.   For those of you who have co parenting problems, even though I am not comfortable giving advice and sharing details online publically, I would be happy to give you some privately via email.  I have answered many emails personally and love to help people with those sorts of things.

I have seen the pictures of your new yard, really how many hours of yard work do you do?  Haha, this one is another one people have been very curious about.  Either because they are considering moving to a home with a rather large lot or that they can’t fathom having such a yard.  My husband mows the lawn one a week and it takes him about an hour on the riding lawnmower.  (I couldn’t imagine how long with a push model!)  The flower beds and weeding could handle a little more time spent on them as the weed block is almost threadbare, but last summer I spend about an hour per week pulling weeds in the flower beds.  This year, we have spent less just because of the time it takes.  I spend about thirty minutes taking care of roses and flowers a week, again if I had more time I could certainly put it in.  My mother in law says she names and talks to all of her flowers, which is a lovely thought, but I just don’t have the time.   Each weekend we do tend to spend a couple of hours on some project, whether it be trimming hedges or building garden boxes, making compost bins, cutting suckers etc. Planting and maintaning our garden takes some time as well.  That being said, both of the boys are actively involved in the garden and help weed and water.  I believe in the children working hard as well as it makes the fruits taste that much sweeter.

What the heck is Waldorf?  This is another one that makes me smile because up until a number of months ago, I wouldn’t have been able to answer that question.  I did a follow up post HERE which generalizes it.

Okee dokee, hope that covers it all.  I love getting emails and I promise, I respond to each one.  Have something you are curious about?  Ask away… don’t be shy.

Thank you all for your support and I look forward to hearing from you all!

DIY Wine Rack

My Dad is pretty handy and an engineer.  I showed him some pictures of DIY wine racks online that I had seen but they didn’t have instructions.

My awesome father was able to help me engineer my wine rack.

We used three fence pickets and one two by four.

diy wine rack

He used his dremel tool to cut half moons out of the two by fours that are behind the wine “holes” so that they will be held up at an angle. {Dont mind the one that is at the higher angle, it was empty thus not heavy enough to sit even with the rest.}

diy wine rack

I love my wine rack.  It may be my favorite project I have done.  I love how rustic it looks and there is plenty of room for wine!

wine rack made of wood

xoxo

Essential Oil Diffuser

I have a confession.  I am a bit embarassed.  I had these in my house, like for years.

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They smell lovely.  However, I kept reading articles about how bad they were for our family.

But I looooooved them.  They smelled so nice when we walked into a room.  Nasty little devils!

A few months ago I began my research on how to get rid of them from our home.  The more I read, the more I was convinced that artifical fragrance was not something I wanted us to be breathing.  Words like Cancer, Brain Tumors, Neurological disorders, etc kept popping up in every  article I read and to be honest it freaked me out!

I found an alternative in Essential oils.

I love that by using certain oils you are not only making the house smell good, but purifying the air and killing germs in the air with the oil as well.  It is not just a cover up or a superficial smell, it actually is benefitting you while you breathe it.  This is such a different concept from the plug ins which actually are harmful to your mind and body while you breathe them.

Here is an easy way to diffuse if you don’t have a diffuser.  Take a large bowl  and place several drops of the oil in it and then top with hot water {not boiling as it will remove some of the positive properties of the oil if you scald it.  The warm water will diffuse the oil into the air.  This will give you a couple of hours of scent.

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One thing to take into mind is the oils you are going to use.  I purchased Do Terra.  I know they are a bit expensive, but they are pure and not cut with a bunch of icky stuff.

I love these oils!

I mostly use a diffuser.  I actually didn’t order the Doterra diffuser because I didn’t think it was pretty and it was a bit pricey, so I ordered mine on Amazon.  Much prettier and more affordable.  I really like the wood grain look.

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Here is how you use it.

Fill it up to the fill line.

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Drop several drops of an essential oil or an oil blend into the water.

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Cover it and hit on.

Do Terra essential oil diffusing

This one will diffuse ALL day.  It is perfect as I need something to set and forget.

Here is Wild Orange which has a lovely citrus smell to it.  It is very uplifthing and invigorating!  {Not to mention that these are pure enough you can cook with them, add to salad dressings, smoothies, water etc!}

Wild Orange Do Terra

Have you ever tried cleaning, aromatherapy, or healing with essential oils?

Do Terra Oils

I have enjoyed adding essential oil use to our home for so many reasons.  I feel that our home is healthier and it smells lovely!

Check out the Do Terra Website for more info on ordering them.  Or feel free to ask questions, I have had so much success with them I love to share tidbits!

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xoxo